Main description:

Claire and Jim were friends, lovers, and sometimes enemies for 27 years. In order to get health insurance, they finally married, calling their anniversary the "It Means Absolutely Nothing" day. Then Jim was diagnosed with cancer. With ever-decreasing odds of survival, punctuated by arcs of false hope, Jim's deteriorating health altered their well-established independence as they became caregiver and patient, sharing intimacy as close as their own breaths. A year and a half into their marriage, Jim died from lung/brain cancer. Sustained by good dogs and gardening through the two years of madness that followed, Claire soldiered through home repairs, career disaster, genealogy quests, and "dating for seniors" trying to build a better life on the debris of her old one.Leave the Dogs at Home maps and plays with the stages of grief. Delightfully confessional, it challenges persistent, yet outdated, societal norms about relationships, and finds relief in whimsy, pop culture, and renewed spirituality.

Contents:

Acknowledgments 1 The Fullness 2 Survivor 3 Waterloo 4 Terminal Restlessness 5 Buzzing 6 Line of Salt 7 Drainage 8 Consilience 9 Balancing Concentrate 10 Swoop 11 The In Between 12 The Point of Surrender 13 The Shitty Truth 14 Fumes 15 Finding Boxerwood 16 Crabbottom Grits 17 Peripheral Vision 18 Six Years Later: New Tricks Credits